Here is a great question from one of my clients.
As many of you know, once you start engaging in personal development work, be it getting some coaching, going to therapy, or finding a spiritual path, many of your closest friends and family members might feel very uncomfortable with the “new you.”
Here’s a great example that some of you might appreciate, followed up with some useful tips.
Here’s my client’s question:
Last night I had dinner with my bro. We got on the topic of “what the f*ck am I doing?” with all my time, going to spiritual talks etc.
My bro gave me a piece about, “You need to be clear with your friends what you’re doing since you are so out of touch, you need to be clear with Mom and Dad. People need you/ want you back. No one understands what is going on with you”. I was patient for a while, and then I got (more…)
We just concluded the first weekend of the Revolutionary Man Leadership Training. Wow, what a ride. And, it’s only the beginning. Remember, these men, now a tribe, will be “in the soup” together for six months! Two more weekends in Boulder and a lot of time processing and expanding in-between.
I personally had an amazing time. I laughed, I cried, I raged, danced, screamed, connected, listened, facilitated, and led. Together, we rocked it and fearlessly explored unknown territory.
Thirteen brave, badass participants and 11 staff (and guest staff!) all helped to create this very, very powerful (more…)
Photo by Josh Levin
This is going to seem like a no brainer, but it’s amazing to me how many guys out there have no idea what they want. What about you?
If someone asks you “What do you really want?” What is your response?
In the first session I always ask the men I coach “What do you want?” Typically they think they know. After they describe it to me, I reflect back this fuzzy, vague picture back to them. They are often unclear whether it’s their short term vision or long term vision.
I ask, “Is that really your ideal?” Wow, is that all you want, seriously?
I have mentioned this in a few prior posts about finding your purpose and (more…)
I have some good news and some bad news.
The good news?
A major film has been made about men’s groups. It’s called, quite simply, Men’s Group. You can watch the trailer below.
The fact that an actual big screen movie was made to document the power of a men’s group is pretty freakin’ cool.
Moreover, the movie’s characters are compelling. In my view the men in the film represent a large majority of men who are shut down and scared of true male connection.
The bad news?
It is a good example of how NOT to run a men’s group. If any man sees this expecting that this is how to run a men’s group, you are terribly mistaken.
This is somewhat tragic. If I were a guy out there who was a little scared of joining a (more…)