When we discourage feminine traits in boys and instead only promote outdated masculine ones, we keep put a gender straightjacket on our boys.
It’s sure tempting to want your man or woman to change, but by focusing on them, you disempower both parties.
Are you a care-taker? Rescuer? Is it really serving you or those you care about? Let’s explore what drives this behavior and its cost. Then choose.
By re-framing selfishness and putting our own needs and desires above anyone else’s, we not only feel better, we serve more people
Your desire to help might be more neurotic than you think with all kinds of strings attached and unconscious expectations.
When boys ask girls for a hug, it sets up a cascade of events where both parties lose and betray themselves