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When we discourage feminine traits in boys and instead only promote outdated masculine ones, we keep put a gender straightjacket on our boys.

It’s sure tempting to want your man or woman to change, but by focusing on them, you disempower both parties.

Are you a care-taker? Rescuer? Is it really serving you or those you care about? Let’s explore what drives this behavior and its cost. Then choose.

By re-framing selfishness and putting our own needs and desires above anyone else’s, we not only feel better, we serve more people