My Son Wears Pink Sunglasses, He’s Either Gay or a Girl Right?

When we discourage feminine traits in boys and instead only promote outdated masculine ones, we keep put a gender straightjacket on our boys.

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Trying to Change Your Partner

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It’s sure tempting to want your man or woman to change, but by focusing on them, you disempower both parties.

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Care-Taking vs Caring For

Are you a care-taker? Rescuer? Is it really serving you or those you care about? Let’s explore what drives this behavior and its cost. Then choose.

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Agency

By re-framing selfishness and putting our own needs and desires above anyone else’s, we not only feel better, we serve more people

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The Year of Self Love

a summer update as we move into harvest time

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Co-Dependency In Marriage

Co-Dependency In Marriage is a tricky one. Contrary to popular belief, codependency isn’t the bad guy. It’s a necessary part of human relationships. But you must know how to work with it…

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A Classic Teenage Relationship Dynamic Where Both Girls and Boys Lose

When boys ask girls for a hug, it sets up a cascade of events where both parties lose and betray themselves

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