A while back I asked this question on my Facebook wall:
Women: I’m curious how you “spot” an emotionally unavailable guy. What are the most common signs in your experience?
I got some great responses, and I asked a similar question to women in my private community.
I geek out on this subject because I was a very emotionally unavailable man for over a decade. And it caused me a TON of pain and failures in my relationships.
So I know the “emotionally unavailable guy” pretty well.
Anyone who’s dated a guy like this can probably understand how frustrating and confusing it can be. So, here’s a quick guide on the 8 signs he’s emotionally unavailable: