There is nothing more powerful than learning how to establish a secure homebase in your primary relationship.
When you don't attend to the "energy" between you and your partner, you will feel the daily impact of stress in your nervous system. If you can't "let down" because you don't feel safe and secure, you will act and behave in ways that may drive your relationship further away.
Before Jayson fully committed to the relationship, Ellen felt naturally felt insecure. This led to a lot of fights that were all about security. We call those "security fights." Ellen would want reassurance and Jayson was annoyed that he had to give that to her. But Jayson' couldn't really give that to her because he wasn't two feet in.
But once Jayson worked through his fears and blocks to intimacy, and Ellen worked with her blocks and insecurities, Jayson asked Ellen to marry him within a few short weeks.
In this video training, you are going to learn what Ellen and Jayson worked so hard to achieve.
We taught this to a group of amazing students in The Relationship School™.
We demonstrate what it looks like when Ellen or Jayson pulls away and what the other person does. We flip roles and you get a tangible, visceral sense of how Ellen and Jayson navigated the terrain to come together as a strong partnership.
Then you'll see how they work with their own triggers when one of them pulls away. You'll also see what it looks like when Jayson is irritable and has his "porcuipine quills" out and the cost of that on Ellen.
Chalked full of real life practical examples and amazing clarifying questions from the students, you'll be learning why a secure home base is a MUST have in any primary partnership.
You'll also get a taste of the expensive price tag involved on your body and heart when you don't commit to learning this stuff.
I hope to see you in there.
Here's to more couples learning how to have each other's backs in the most loving and respectful way possible.
Jayson & Ellen