Dear Smart, Success-oriented woman,

I used to be a very emotionally unavailable guy.

For years, I pushed and pulled with the women I dated.

As they got close to me, I'd pull away and hide my heart.

It was a very frustrating cycle for the women I dated.

Eventually I had a major breakthrough and I learned how to let down my guard.

I eventually studied why men are like this in grad school and found some amazing insights. I then led men's groups, men's retreats and wrote countless blog posts trying to help men.

I got married, had kids and continued to help men and women find the love they want.

Along the way I got very clear about what makes or breaks a relationship. And there's one common deal-breaker that can ruin any relationship. And that is this....

If one of you is emotionally unavailable or unwilling to work on the relationship.

That's right.

If you, or your man, is unable to really open up and share about the relationship in a caring way, your relationship is doomed.

So that is why I created this simple quiz.

So you don't have to waste any more time with a man who is not into you as is demonstrated by his actions (not his words).

A good man will continue to try and show up.

And I've created a very accurate quiz, in case you are unsure, that will help you go deeper with him, or move on.

I sincerely hope this powerful quiz serves you.

Jayson