Get The # 1 Skill To Prevent
Break-Ups, Affairs & Divorce
It's shocking to me how many break ups and blow outs could be avoided if people learned one thing.
The brain research is clear...
If you cannot, and do not, learn to regulate your emotions, shut down, or reactivity during or after an argument, disagreement or fight, you will not only damage your brain, but you will lose relationship over the long haul.
Check this quote out from the International Business Times
"Exposure to frequent conflicts between parents can impair brain development in children and place them at a greater risk of several mental health issues, researchers reveal."
It's just true now.
It's what a lot of psychologists thought, but now we have the facts.
Or how about this from Couples Attachment Expert Stan Tatkin,
"Insecurity and insecure attachment negatively affect brain performance. Development can be slowed down because the brain is using most of its resources to manage being in survival mode instead of being free to move toward evolution, growth, and complexity."
I wish there was a way to make conflict resolution a required part of the classroom in schools everywhere (I have some long-term visions on this, stay tuned). We'd thrive instead of survive...
But since it’s not being taught in schools and we never learned it in schools, and because no couple can avoid conflict successfully over time, I invite you to learn with me, right here, right now.
Come to “relationship school” right now and learn the most vital skill that all successful couples understand.
Win-Win Conflict and Communication
If I had to choose only one skill, out of the countless I know, to help couples make it long term learning “how to fight well” is the one I'd choose.
In my 2 decades of experience with families and couples, this was the missing skill I observe every single time because it's what had families and parents dragging their kids into forced treatment where I worked back in the day. The unwillingness or inability to do conflict well was the determining failure factor of every single family I knew. Above addiction, above mental illness, and far above anything else.
Later on in my career, same thing...The inability or unwillingness to do conflict was the only reason individuals and couples came in to see me when I was a licensed psychotherapist for almost ten years.
Don’t be a crippled couple when it comes to having a thriving partnership.
Don’t let your inability or unwillingness ruin your awesome partnership.
Don’t let your fight flight fear response drive your partner away…
You can do this.
I applaud your efforts for making it this far in your life and this far to reach this page. It means you are pretty damn serious about learning this one for good.
Because this is like riding a bike...
...once you get it, you've got it for the rest of your life.
And, since the bumps in the road will always be there in your interpersonal relationships, you can rest assured knowing you have the powertools to deal with any challenge that comes into your relationship life.
This course goes beyond arguments and deals with the heart of our unrest with the tension between you and others.
If you want to not only learn how to achieve win-win conflict and communication all the time, but also how to be a resilient warrior when you have ANY interpersonal challenge with family, friends or co-workers, then this course holds the keys to your new kingdom to a much more empowered future.
See you on the other side!
Your Guide For This 30 Day Intensive
Jayson Gaddis's favorite thing to do is help people resolve conflict. He's spent over the past 2 decades in a variety of settings studying human behavior and why people struggle to understand each other. His own life has been full of endless failures and victories so he wants to save you time, money, and energy by dissolving the core conflicts so you can love bigger. He teaches virtual relationship empowerment classes to students around the globe. And in this class he's going to teach you the #1 foundational skill you must learn in order to have a successful long-term partnership.
Real Results from Real Students
Check out these real testimonials from some of our previous students of Jayson's courses.
Indestructible Partnerships was a wonderful, skill-building, and awareness-raising course, and super applicable to real life. We all have needs, wants, and desires and this course offered exercises that brought clarity as well as a methodology for articulating them. Like anything in life, you get out what you put in. The course thus offered a practice space for developing the communication tools it offered in the weekly lessons. Optional but beneficial. Its integration of listening skills, a win/win orientation, and the latest knowledge in relational psychology make this course foundational for anyone wanting a life they know is possible, but aren't sure how to get there.
I loved this course, it got me out of my comfort zone and the partners every week were amazing. I truly loved this aspect of the course. I enjoyed the Q&A, every week and the community on Facebook, the only drawback I think is that Jayson Gaddis didn't come home with us to address the issues we had. Lol, growing is truly uncomfortable but the end result, I know is worth it. Thank you for offering this course during this time as it helped me to not just accept things as usual but helped me to really strengthen and flex the muscles that have been atrophying for all this time! I look forward to the opportunities that you offer to continue on this journey of uncovering what lies deep within me. Thank you so much!
We loved the conflict course, despite bringing more conflict at the beginning of the course, as we worked our way through the course it began to bring so much in depth clarity about why we were fighting, how we could differently interact with each other during conflict and effectively take responsibility. Each week there were different results and by the end we noticed fully the results in how our conflicts began to shorten in time, when we began using the new language effectively, we both we saying more how we felt understood and seen which enabled us to build more intimacy in our relationship. Tomas said he felt more trust and Melina felt more secure. It has opened up new possibilities to us where we don't feel as helpless during conflict but rather now we have options and tools to use to help us. It continues to be an ongoing practice which we are realising the need for community for support and accountability which will be our next step to ensure we remain on the path of using conflict to face our own wounds and see our partner as allies during this time. Thank you Jayson - this course is truly eye and heart opening, your straight forward, sometimes light hearted approach made it easy to digest. We are both deeply grateful.Tomas & Melina
Kimberly Glow, Physician
I just wanted to truly thank you Jayson for being my life raft. You continue to guide me as I discover who I am and learn what I want and do not want in relationships as I move forward. I truly believe that I could never have gotten to this place without you!!!!!!!
Jayson’s course was transformational! In years of radical personal growth, I haven’t found anything that comes even close to his material, in terms of practicality, mindset, clear usable examples, hands on coaching and real life daily application! He will firmly help you identify what you are wanting, help you get clear on it, and move toward it. Be ready and willing to buckle yourself in for this ride. You are worth it. If you don’t believe that, you really need what he has to offer. Be prepared to be “met” and “seen” in a loving way you have never experienced before. He gets you. Thank you again. I’m so grateful for you!Melaney G., Performing Artist
Thanks so much for the course. Your wisdom is so inspiring and grounding. For me, the course was very in-depth and even though I've done a lot of personal growth I found this course unearthed more for me to shed light on. the 3 n's were so powerful for me to put a voice to what I need in a relationship. I am learning just to accept who I am and my needs and not have judgment around it (work in progress) I loved hearing the truth of what a good relationship looks like and the necessary effort it takes to make it work. I discovered that I am at a new edge where I want/need to believe that with work and a willing partner this type of relationship is possible for me. The materials were easy to follow and having a Facebook group community and people to practice with was priceless.India Leigh
Thank you for bringing this opportunity to me at this point in my live to improve all my relationships but especially to see that what I want is achievable and I am worthy of it—with or without my current partner.
This course challenged me. A lot. I went in hoping for strategies on how to deal with my partner and came out with strategies for how to deal with myself. The tools I learned steered me out of the “he said/she said” mental loops and helped me get unstuck from some of my old wounds and patterns so I can start to tap into a deeper foundation of joy and power.
I love the courageous community and the friendships that have emerged out of the intentional space that Jayson opened for the group. His guidance has been invaluable. I’m so grateful!
I feel very empowered and resourced to "do life" differently, in a way that I will be more true to myself and have more fulfilling relationships with others.
Participating in the Conflict course with Jayson was like having a bunch of switches turned on in my thinking and way of seeing around relationships and my own behavior! But rather than being too heady or conceptual, these "aha" moments of discovery and understanding are actual tools I have already been able to integrate - ones I can use everyday, in every relationship, and for the rest of my life. By lighting up some dark corners, I feel clearer in what I need to work on, and how, and and a door has opened that lets me feel closer to my partner, as well as my friends and family. Thanks, Jayson! Great stuff!
Who This Course Is NOT For?
We all blame, but if you feel attached to your partner being "wrong" then I can't help you. If you are open to seeing your part, and working on it, then we're in business.
If you struggle like the rest of us in partnership, no problem. But if you complain and whine about it, without finding the very best solutions to help you take full responsibility, we won't get along very well.
Band Aid Seekers
If you want the pain to just magically disappear, or you want someone to make it all go away with no effort on your part, I can't help. But if you want to "earn" a great relationship, let's do this.
Get The Keys To Win-Win Fighting & Create Your Indestructible Partnership
Without these tools your relationship is doomed for struggle, hurt, and challenge. Why wait. Get your foundation set in place forever so when things inevitably get hard and challenge comes, you will meet and clear the charges as they arise, and get empowered and stronger through whatever comes your way.