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How To Reach Win-Win
In Any Argument
A 30-Day Course For Individuals & Couples
Pay in Full for $347
Or, pay in 4 monthly payments of $97
Get The # 1 Skill To Prevent
Break-Ups, Affairs & Divorce
It's shocking to me how many break ups and blow outs could be avoided if people learned one thing.
The brain research is clear...
If you cannot, and do not, learn to regulate your emotions, shut down, or reactivity during or after an argument, disagreement or fight, you will not only damage your brain, but you will lose relationship over the long haul.
Check this quote out from the International Business Times
"Exposure to frequent conflicts between parents can impair brain development in children and place them at a greater risk of several mental health issues, researchers reveal."
It's just true now.
It's what a lot of psychologists thought, but now we have the facts.
Or how about this from Couples Attachment Expert Stan Tatkin,
"Insecurity and insecure attachment negatively affect brain performance. Development can be slowed down because the brain is using most of its resources to manage being in survival mode instead of being free to move toward evolution, growth, and complexity."
I wish there was a way to make conflict resolution a required part of the classroom in schools everywhere (I have some long-term visions on this, stay tuned). We'd thrive instead of survive...
But since it’s not being taught in schools and we never learned it in schools, and because no couple can avoid conflict successfully over time, I invite you to learn with me, right here, right now.
Come to “relationship school” right now and learn the most vital skill that all successful couples understand.
If I had to choose only one skill, out of the countless I know, to help couples make it long term learning “how to fight well” is the one I'd choose.
In my 2 decades of experience with families and couples, this was the missing skill I observe every single time because it's what had families and parents dragging their kids into forced treatment where I worked back in the day. The unwillingness or inability to do conflict well was the determining failure factor of every single family I knew. Above addiction, above mental illness, and far above anything else.
Later on in my career, same thing...The inability or unwillingness to do conflict was the only reason individuals and couples came in to see me when I was a licensed psychotherapist for almost ten years.
Don’t be a crippled couple when it comes to having a thriving partnership.
Don’t let your inability or unwillingness ruin your awesome partnership.
Don’t let your fight flight fear response drive your partner away…
You can do this.
I applaud your efforts for making it this far in your life and this far to reach this page. It means you are pretty damn serious about learning this one for good.
Because this is like riding a bike...
...once you get it, you've got it for the rest of your life.
And, since the bumps in the road will always be there in your interpersonal relationships, you can rest assured knowing you have the powertools to deal with any challenge that comes into your relationship life.
This course goes beyond arguments and deals with the heart of our unrest with the tension between you and others.
If you want to not only learn how to achieve win-win arguing all the time, but also how to be a resilient warrior when you have ANY interpersonal challenge with famliy, friends or co-workers, then this course holds the keys to your new kingdom to a much more empowered future.
See you on the other side!
Your Guide For This 30 Day Intensive
Jayson Gaddis's favorite thing to do is help people resolve conflict. He's spent over the past 2 decades in a variety of settings studying human behavior and why people struggle to understand each other. His own life has been full of endless failures and victories so he wants to save you time, money, and energy by dissolving the core conflicts so you can love bigger. He teaches virtual relationship empowerment classes to students around the globe. And in this class he's going to teach you the #1 foundational skill you must learn in order to have a successful long-term partnership.
Tired Of Feeling Disconnected & Hurt?
Then stop running away from the very thing that will give you a deeper, more fulfilling relationship!
It's time to learn how to argue like a love-warrior! No more hurt, blame, or freak outs to get what you want. You can learn a simple set of skills that will forever change the way you relate to others.
Real Results from Real Students
Check out these real testimonials from some of our previous students of Jayson's courses.
We loved the conflict course, despite bringing more conflict at the beginning of the course, as we worked our way through the course it began to bring so much in depth clarity about why we were fighting, how we could differently interact with each other during conflict and effectively take responsibility. Each week there were different results and by the end we noticed fully the results in how our conflicts began to shorten in time, when we began using the new language effectively, we both we saying more how we felt understood and seen which enabled us to build more intimacy in our relationship. Tomas said he felt more trust and Melina felt more secure. It has opened up new possibilities to us where we don't feel as helpless during conflict but rather now we have options and tools to use to help us. It continues to be an ongoing practice which we are realising the need for community for support and accountability which will be our next step to ensure we remain on the path of using conflict to face our own wounds and see our partner as allies during this time. Thank you Jayson - this course is truly eye and heart opening, your straight forward, sometimes light hearted approach made it easy to digest. We are both deeply grateful.Tomas & Melina
Kimberly Glow, Physician
I just wanted to truly thank you Jayson for being my life raft. You continue to guide me as I discover who I am and learn what I want and do not want in relationships as I move forward. I truly believe that I could never have gotten to this place without you!!!!!!!
Jayson’s course was transformational! In years of radical personal growth, I haven’t found anything that comes even close to his material, in terms of practicality, mindset, clear usable examples, hands on coaching and real life daily application! He will firmly help you identify what you are wanting, help you get clear on it, and move toward it. Be ready and willing to buckle yourself in for this ride. You are worth it. If you don’t believe that, you really need what he has to offer. Be prepared to be “met” and “seen” in a loving way you have never experienced before. He gets you. Thank you again. I’m so grateful for you!Melaney G., Performing Artist
In This 30-Day Course You Will Learn:
- How to identify the core issue between you and your partner
- The only context that creates win-win arguments
- Partner exercises that will help you get serious practice and community throughout the course
- How to create a secure container so you can handle any fight
- The 180 Clarity To Freedom Process that dissolves any charges
- How to communicate effectively so you can get exactly what you want
Thank you for bringing this opportunity to me at this point in my live to improve all my relationships but especially to see that what I want is achievable and I am worthy of it—with or without my current partner.
This course challenged me. A lot. I went in hoping for strategies on how to deal with my partner and came out with strategies for how to deal with myself. The tools I learned steered me out of the “he said/she said” mental loops and helped me get unstuck from some of my old wounds and patterns so I can start to tap into a deeper foundation of joy and power.
I love the courageous community and the friendships that have emerged out of the intentional space that Jayson opened for the group. His guidance has been invaluable. I’m so grateful!
I feel very empowered and resourced to "do life" differently, in a way that I will be more true to myself and have more fulfilling relationships with others.
Participating in the Conflict course with Jayson was like having a bunch of switches turned on in my thinking and way of seeing around relationships and my own behavior! But rather than being too heady or conceptual, these "aha" moments of discovery and understanding are actual tools I have already been able to integrate - ones I can use everyday, in every relationship, and for the rest of my life. By lighting up some dark corners, I feel clearer in what I need to work on, and how, and and a door has opened that lets me feel closer to my partner, as well as my friends and family. Thanks, Jayson! Great stuff!
Course Contents & Modules:
Willing-The Core Tenets and Agreements of An Indestructible Partnership.
In this first module, you will learn the proper view and framework to create a secure, successful partnership where you can safely explore learning how to do argue well. We cover the core tenets and also the 10 agreements of an Indestructible Partnership.We'll also get into why we argue, what we argue about, and begin to lay the groundwork to achieve win-win.
Presence--Why The Soft Skills Are So Healing To Learn & How We Can Literally Re-wire Our Brains by Getting This!
To re-wire your brain, you will need to learn how to "be with" your experience. This helps you "be with" your partner during necessary negotiations and arguing. In this module you are going to learn the fundamentals of any good listener. Reflective listening, mirroring, getting their world, validation and much more.
Able--The Personal Operating System Alone Has The Power To Change How You Communicate Forever. We'll Tackle This & More
The POS (personal operating system) is a key "hard skill" to learn that will help not only your personal relationships, but it has the power to transform your business relationships and double your impact when it comes to persuasion. Sometimes we need to "sell" our brilliance to our clueless partner. In this module you'll not only learn how to do that, but you will gain greater and greater understanding of how to communicate in such a way that has both of you feeling seen, supported, and understood.
Able--The 180 Clarity To Freedom Process
As I said before, the "180" is by far the most powerful tool I've ever experienced when it comes to personal growth and relationship development. You will learn exactly how to clear the core argument in your relationship. Not only does this bring relief to your relationship, you can now spend your energy the next most important task in your lives or relationship.
The Clarity To Freedom Process & Sample Win-Win Demos.
In our final class we take another step with the 180 process as you feel inspired to tackle new challenges in yourself and in your relationship. There's no greater way to bring more clarity and freedom to your relationship than to add this beast of a tool to your arguing and negotiating with others. Plus, we'll do a live demo to make sure you know what I'm talking about here.
This tool (and the others) will be yours for life and you'll no longer be wasting time and energy on fighting over dumb stuff, you'll be looking forward to arguing because you now know it's the necessary step to help you get what you most want in your life.
Who This Course Is NOT For?
We all blame, but if you feel attached to your partner being "wrong" then I can't help you. If you are open to seeing your part, and working on it, then we're in business.
If you struggle like the rest of us in partnership, no problem. But if you complain and whine about it, without finding the very best solutions to help you take full responsibility, we won't get along very well.
Band Aid Seekers
If you want the pain to just magically disappear, or you want someone to make it all go away with no effort on your part, I can't help. But if you want to "earn" a great relationship, let's do this.
Who This 30 Day Course IS For?
With this class you are not only more attractive to your future mate, you are able and willing to handle any challenge that comes your way. So come prepare yourself for the dream relationship.
You're not yet married, and may never be, but you get that arguing well is crucial to your relationship success and fulfillment, no matter how long you stay with this person.
You completely understand by now that if you want to go the distance, you MUST get in the driver's seat of your reactivity or your marriage won't last, period. Get the win-win program down for life.
Get The Keys To Win-Win Fighting & Create Your Indestructible Partnership
Without these tools your relationship is doomed for struggle, hurt, and challenge. Why wait. Get your foundation set in place forever so when things inevitably get hard and challenge comes, you will meet and clear the charges as they arise, and get empowered and stronger through whatever comes your way.
Pay in Full for $347
Or, pay in 4 monthly payments of $97
You can’t go wrong with this incredible guarantee!
I’m so absolutely sure that this 30-day course will help your partnership, that I’m offering a risk free 30-day money back guarantee. If for whatever reason this course does not satisfy you in any way, simply send us an email within 30 days from your purchase and we’ll refund you on one condition. Read "Refund Policy" below. I know for certain you have never tried anything like this. You have nothing to lose!
WHAT IF I DON’T LIKE IT, I’M NOT SATISFIED, OR I’M SEEING NO RESULTS?
Because I am fully committed to helping you change your relationship and your life, I want to offer you this 100% money back guarantee. You have 30 days to test out the course. If you do the work and don’t feel that I’ve delivered on my promise, I’ll happily refund 100% of your money.
Important: To be eligible for a refund, I require your completed homework from the first three classes, as well as a written description of the changes you were making and the results you got. This means you must apply my teachings to your life and your relationships. I know that if you do, you’ll get results. But If you do the work and don’t get value, then I don’t deserve your money and I’ll cheerfully refund you 100% of your tuition.
I do this because I’m looking for serious and committed students only. I take my learning environment seriously and maintain a very high standard of truth, integrity, encouragement, and inspired, action-oriented learning.
Indestructible Partnerships: Win-Win Arguing – Terms
Liability Release and Terms of Attendance
Please carefully read the following terms and conditions relating to your participation in Jayson Gaddis’ Indestructible Partnerships: Win-Win Arguing (“Course”) which is conducted by Jayson Gaddis, Inc (“Facilitator”). By registering for the course online, you (the “Attendee”) signify your acceptance of and obligation to these terms and conditions. If you have objections to the following Terms and Conditions, you should not register for or attend the course.
The Promoter requires all Attendees to be respectful and professional to our staff, location hosts, speakers, other attendees and their guests or families throughout the course, even during non-scheduled downtime and breaks. The Facilitator reserves the right to ask Attendees and/or their guests to leave the virtual classroom and/or Venue should they be deemed disrespectful, uncooperative, unprofessional, intoxicated or in possession of alcohol or illegal substances. In such case: 1) The Attendee’s tuition/fees for the Seminar will not be reimbursed, 2) Nor will they receive any of the bonuses that were advertised with the program, and 3) the satisfaction guarantee will no longer apply, nor will any other written or implied guarantees. In such case, the Facilitator additionally reserves the right to no longer include the Attendee in any future product launches, services or correspondence.
While we take every possible measure to ensure the Attendees’ safety during the Seminar, we cannot control everything. For this reason, the Attendee is legally responsible for his/her own behavior and safety, and agrees to be held legally liable for the following statements:
I, a willing Attendee of the Seminar, hereby accept all risk to my health, including my injury or death, which may occur while participating in the Seminar. I hereby release the Facilitator, Jayson Gaddis, and the associated officers, employees, interns, contractors, sponsors and representatives from any and all liability to me and my personal property. This release of liability includes any and all illness or injury to my person while attending the course, whether or not negligence occurs by the Promoter, its governing board, officers, employees, or representatives.
I further agree to indemnify and hold harmless the Promoter and Facilitator, Jayson Gaddis, and all third-party companies from liability for the injury or death of any person(s) and damage to property that may result from my negligent or intentional act or omission while participating in the Course. Under no circumstance will the Facilitator, Jayson Gaddis or their assignees be held liable for my injury or death or any loss or damage of my personal belonging resulting from my participation in the Seminar.
Should I require emergency medical treatment as a result of an accident or illness arising during my attendance and participation in the course, I consent to such treatment. I agree to be financially responsible for any medical or legal bills that may be incurred as a result of emergency medical treatment. I will notify the Facilitator verbally and in writing if I am at any time injured prior to, during, or after the Course in my travels or attendance, or if I have medical conditions about which emergency medical personnel should be informed. I understand that the Facilitator (Jayson Gaddis, Inc) is not legally obligated to act on that information in any way or to provide any medical service whatsoever to me. I agree that if I have any medical or psychological conditions that may hamper me from fully and healthfully participating in the Course that I will notify the Facilitator. The Facilitator retains the right to ask that an Attendee not participate in portions of or the entirety of the Course.
Liability Disclaimer: No Professional & Personal Advice
The information contained in or made available by the Facilitator, Jayson Gaddis, or any third-party through the Course or their websites or services cannot replace or substitute for the services of trained professionals in any field, including, but not limited to, mental, financial, medical, psychological, or legal fields. The Facilitator does not offer any professional, personal, medical, financial or legal advice and none of the information contained in the Course should be confused with such advice. The Facilitator, Jayson Gaddis nor their assignees, sponsors, speakers, partners, contractors or any of their affiliates will not be held liable for any direct, indirect, consequential, special, exemplary or other damages to the Attendee or the Attendee’s business, including economic loss, that may result from participation in the Seminar or from use of, or the inability to use, the materials, information, or strategies communicated through the Course or from the use of, or the inability to use, the materials, information, or strategies communicated through the Facilitator or any products or services provided pursuant to the Facilitator, even if advised of the possibility of such damages. Under no circumstances, including but not limited to negligence, will the Facilitator or Jayson Gaddis be liable for any special or consequential damages that result from the Attendee’s participation in the Seminar.
To be clear: You, the Attendee, alone are responsible and accountable for your decisions, actions and results in life, and by your participation in our Course, you agree not to attempt to hold us, the Facilitator or Jayson Gaddis, liable for any decisions, actions or results that you make or experience in business or in life due to your participation in this Course at any time, under any circumstance.
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I, the Attendee, understand that purchasing a course at the invoiced price, whether that be full or discounted to a certain degree, does entitle me to attending the Course. However, I do understand that this price does not include the fee for shared accommodation and food, unless specifically stated otherwise at the time of purchase.
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The Attendee hereby understands that the tools, processes, strategies, materials and information presented in the course are confidential, copyrighted, and propriety to the Facilitator. The Attendee also agrees not to record, duplicate, distribute, teach or train from the Course materials in any manner whatsoever without the explicit written permission of the Facilitator. Any unauthorized use or distribution of these proprietary concepts, materials, and intellectual property by you or your representatives is prohibited and will be deemed illegal. In such case, the Facilitator will pursue legal action and full damages if these terms are violated in order to protect its rights.
During our Seminar, we will discuss several adult topics in relation to personal and professional growth. We will also occasionally use adult or profane language to emphasize a point or connect with or surprise the audience (though we will never be lewd, and will always use tact and discretion in doing so). Participants who are uncomfortable with such topics or language should not attend the Course and will not receive a refund should they request one based on an offense to such language under any circumstances.
By participation in the Course, the Attendee understands that portions or all of the course’s live events may be recorded in video and audio and/or captured in still and/or digital photographs. The Attendee agrees that the Facilitator and its assignees have the right and permission to use such recordings and photographs should they include the Attendee’s name, likeness, voice, biographical details, testimonial, or photograph for marketing. The Facilitator reserves the right to use such recordings and photographs for advertising or any other purpose, in any media or format, online and/or offline, now or hereafter without further compensation, permission, or notification to the Attendee. The Attendee agrees to not ask for or expect compensation for the use of recordings and/or photographs in which the Attendee appears or speaks. The Facilitator owns all rights of any audio, video, and/or photograph captured during the Facilitator’s Course or at any of the Facilitator’s other live events. By choosing to participate in the Course, Attendees acknowledge and agree that they are subject to the Privacy Policies of the Promoter.
Cancellation & Refund Policy
Most companies have a Refund Policy. At Jayson Gaddis, Inc, for Indestructible Partnerships: Win-Win Arguing, we have a Commitment AND Refund Policy.
This means once you’ve made your purchase, you will have 30 full days to ask for a refund. Within this period, your investment, whether purchase or deposit, is 100% refundable.
If we do not receive your written declination at [email protected] within this 30 day period, on the 30th day we will consider your commitment confirmed, and your investment becomes non-refundable.
We believe in the power of commitment, especially those commitments made to oneself.
We understand that unexpected life occurrences may arise, and we may consider transferring the balance of your investment (one time only) to another Jayson Gaddis event and/or program within 18 months of your original purchase with a minimum of 1 days advance notice before the event and/or program begins. Please note that this is not a guaranteed transfer, and will be reviewed on a case by case basis.
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Other online products have a 30-day refund period, unless specifically stated otherwise. After 30 days from purchase, NO refunds will be given under any circumstances. At our discretion, we will allow the transfer of certain online products, the attendee, however, will be responsible for finding a replacement within 30 days from registration. The Online Products refund policy only applies to certain products, and does not include products that are offered as part of programs, events, coaching or courses. To find out what products are covered under this addendum, please send questions to [email protected]
We have taken every effort to ensure that we accurately represent this event and its potential to help you and your growth, whether that be related to your personal or professional development. However, there is no guarantee that you will improve your relationship(s) using the teachings that we offer. None of the products or services that we offer is a promise or guarantee of healing potential in any way. Your level of success, personally or professionally related, are dependent upon a number of factors including your skill, knowledge, ability, dedication, relationship savvy, and pre-existing experience. Because these factors differ according to each individual, we cannot guarantee your success or saving your marriage or relationship. You, alone, are responsible for your actions and results in life and in relationships. Any statements of possible outcome outlined in our advertising and programs are simply a projected expectation for future potential, and thus, are not guarantees or promises for actual performance or outcome. These statements simply represent our opinion. No guarantees are made that you will achieve any results from the ideas or models that are presented at the Course or in any related documentation. We do not offer personal, professional, legal, or financial advice.
As stated on our Site and in our Marketing Materials, we guarantee that Attendees will be 100% satisfied with the Seminar should they attend the entire event. Satisfaction is defined as the Attendees belief that we have delivered on what we have promised in promoting the event. If Attendees are not satisfied at the conclusion of the event, after having attended the entire event, and they notify us in the manner described herein, we will refund their tuition to the Course. Under certain circumstances, we may also reimburse their accommodation and food fee. Participants who are not satisfied with the Course must, at the immediate conclusion of the Course, verbally notify one of our senior staff members of the dissatisfaction. Unsatisfied Attendees must also relinquish all course materials as well as their personal notes taken from the seminar. In all cases, an unsatisfied Attendee will be asked to submit a letter explaining the reasons for dissatisfaction. Any reimbursements will be made within 30 days of the event. All reimbursements are at the sole discretion of the Facilitator, and all Facilitator decisions are final and binding. Any statements of dissatisfaction or request for refunds received after physically leaving the event will not qualify for this guarantee.
NOTE: A guarantee represents a promise about the quality of services delivered. If an Attendee does not fully experience the service (i.e. does not attend the entire Course), the guarantee does not apply. Furthermore, the guarantee cannot be substituted or confused with the Cancellation Policy, and as stipulated by law and our earnings disclaimer, the guarantee is not based on future revenue or performance.
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These Terms are subject to change at any time at the sole discretion of the Promoter.