I Love Who I am As A Parent

celebrating guilt-free, super connected, tons of love, massive growth as a parent…

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When I’m in A Fight With My Wife

the ongoing practice of individuation

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Relational Victimhood

If your claim is that you want to change your relationship life, you must be honest about where you are being a victim and wanting a rescue-job.

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No Way Out

is the “no escape” of parenting a blessing or a curse? for me, it’s a no brainer even in the mystery of it all…

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For Guys Who Attract Critical Women

you can blame your woman for being critical, or you can go deeper and learn to see, work with, and understand why she’s in your life.

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Learning Conflict Has To Start Somewhere

If your claim is that you want a different kind of interaction, more honesty, more juice, or you want more truth or depth, then it’s up to you to take a risk.

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Emotionally Shut Down Men

When I feel shut down, thank God I have tools. Men with no tools stay stuck for a long time.

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I Can’t Save My Kids From Pain

my kids must face their own trials and tribulations. It is critical to their path. And, as a parent, it burns….

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