18. August 2010

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Jayson’s Fall Event Schedule 2010

August

18 –Free tele-class, The Truth is In Your Body, Effortless Sex that Lasts a Lifetime
Led by David Cates, hosted by Jayson Gaddis, MEN & WOMEN

25 – 6-week tele-class begins The Truth is In Your Body, Effortless Sex that Lasts a Lifetime Led by David Cates, hosted by Jayson Gaddis, Phone, MEN ONLY

September

9-11 –The New Masculine Paradigm speech at Modern Media Man Summit, Atlanta, GA. MEN & WOMEN. http://modernmediaman.com/

18-19 –ReWilding the Masculine & Feminine, The New Truth-Telling Experience for Evolving Men and Women. Boulder. with co-facilitator Christiane Pelmas. MEN & WOMEN. Invite only
25-26 –Evolving Men’s Conference, Boulder, MEN & WOMEN, invite only

October

1-3 –Penetrating the Material World, Using Your Sexual power to Create an Abundant Life, a 2.2 day introductory intensive for MEN with David Cates & Jayson Gaddis
16 –one day evolve.MEN.t intensive in Boulder, CO MEN ONLY

November

6 –one day evolve.MEN.t intensive in Boulder, CO MEN ONLY
15-17 –Penetrating the Material World, Using Your Sexual power to Create an Abundant Life, a 6-Month Training for MEN. Boulder & Seattle. David Cates & Jayson Gaddis, application only

January

28 –6-Month Men’s Leadership Training, application only. New details and site coming soon.

Other events that do not yet have a date:

Shamanic Wilderness Blast Off–An overnight with Jayson and Reuvain Bacal in the Colorado mountains. Only for fearless dudes wanting to take a very deep dive.

2 hour samplers– Jayson will also be doing a few free 2-hour evenings with other collaborators in Boulder. Stay tuned. Some for men and some for men and women.

A gathering of the conscious and evolving men– A monthly or quarterly pow wow with dozens of men together in one space, committed to going deep.

Fatherhood as a Spritual Path – An exploration for new fathers which helps you see that fatherhood is indeed a spiritual path.

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13. August 2010

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Men and Sex

Art by Bryce Widom

Art by Bryce Widom

Most men are locked up and confused sexually.

I am a student when it comes to sex. Sex has brought me incredible shame and unbelievable joy in my life.

Pretty much every guy I have ever talked to about his sex life has been challenged one way or another in the bedroom.

Sex is the most widely googled term. By in large, we are a sexually repressed culture and it leaks out in hypersexualized images everywhere.

Most of us grew up being robbed of a genuine, heartfelt, honest education about sex. Men (and women of course) have received a ridiculous amount of misinformation about sex from boyhood to manhood. Many men remain sexually immature, confused and illiterate. Sex education completely falls short of the what we need to succeed and feel good about ourselves sexually.

As a result, many men are unhappy and ashamed. In addition, with little to no information about the [...]

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11. August 2010

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What Straight Men Can Learn From Gay Men

I just returned from my 20 year high school reunion. Wow. Who did I connect with the most? My gay friends who were not openly gay growing up and my Mormon pals who left the LDS church. “Yup, I’m gay and this is my partner so and so….” So, immediately, I was super interested and intrigued about what it must have been like since high school (and before) to have walked in their shoes.

Gay men (and other oppressed folks) have had to face something that I, as a white, heterosexual dude have the luxury of avoiding–the question of personal identiy.

Disclaimer: I speak only from the therapeutic and coaching work I have done with gay men and from the gay friends I have. I invite my gay brothers to chime in here and speak about your own experience. I generalize here and I feel okay about it. Am I sterotyping? Perhaps. You tell me.

If you are gay, from a very early age, you have had to face your identity head on. No matter how much you try to avoid it, or suppress it, it will haunt you, so my gay friends tell me. The core incongruency is so painful and jarring, that it is impossible to avoid successfully unless you are an advanced narcissist and surround yourself with brainwashing so powerful, you completely leave [...]

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29. July 2010

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Calling All Spiritually Minded Dudes

If you are a hungry man, keep reading. I am calling out to evolving men who may want to join our tribe.

I just finished a 6 month Men’s Leadership Training and WOW.  11 men + 10-12 staff and me all went through this amazing modern-day rite of passage.

I think it’s safe to say, this was a life changing experience for everyone involved.

Testimonials and a video to come….

I witnessed men:

  • go from boy to man
  • get in touch with their authentic power
  • experience a deep connection to source, the divine, and God
  • who now know what it is like to have men in their lives who genuinely have their back
  • get in touch with deep rage and express it
  • gain seriously clarity around their life purpose
  • go from being stuck and locked up to incredibly open, loving, and powerful
  • feel safe enough and [...]

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6. July 2010

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Beating off to Porn is NOT a Strategy for Long Term Success? (Guest Post)

Marc Quinn raises some key points about how surfing porn will only slow you down

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17. June 2010

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Men’s Work in 2010, Is it Relevant?

Is Men’s Work in 2010 still relevant or even necessary?

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20. May 2010

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How to Create Your Own Modern Day Rite-of-Passage (I’m personally going through a huge one)

We explore the basics of setting up a real-time rite of passage for you.

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11. May 2010

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Evolving Men’s Conference 2010

Watch 2 short videos about the inspiration for getting men together from all men’s groups across the planet.

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3. May 2010

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The New Masculine Paradigm

A couple of short videos during a weekend of doing male leadership very differently.

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29. April 2010

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What Is Happening To Me? Two Big Lessons

The new masculine paradigm is here. Time to get real.

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