Recently Bill Harryman blogged about chapter two in David Deida‘s book Way of The Superior Man titled “Live with an open heart, even if it hurts.” When I first read this years ago I thought to myself, “Are you nuts?”
Living with your heart open is a rich, unexplored part of the path for most men. Many men keep their heart closed their whole life, never opening up even to their spouse or intimate partner.
I was that guy until about age 30—walking around with a puffed out chest and (more…)
I used to think most personality tests were pretty lame. Even the Myers Briggs. What do they really tell me about myself that I don’t already know?
Well, I have since been very humbled by The Enneagram which revealed that I was a type-three!
This modern psychological tool is used by millions across the world for more self-understanding and self-actualization. The symbol is shown to the left.
The symbol itself is said to date back (more…)
I was emotionally shut down for years. Every woman I dated had to deal with my inability to identify a feeling. She would ask, “Hey is something bothering you?” I would reply, “No, I’m fine” with a hint of defensiveness.
The closest I ever came to identifying what was really going on was “I’m in a funk.” Many folks know this as feeling off somehow or my personal favorite, “I’m in a bad mood.”
Underneath such comments is an entire emotional landscape that remains largely unexplored. The metaphor I like to use is (more…)
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Starting May 2, 2009, eight lucky men will join me for an intense 108 day personal development training. Get ready to change your life in a radical way. The purpose of this (more…)