A 2.5 hour video class that will teach you:

The Difference Between An Insecure Relationship & A Secure Relationship

And Why Knowing The Difference Could Make Or Break Your Relationship

Dear Friend,

There is nothing more powerful than learning how to establish a secure homebase in your primary relationship.

When you don’t attend to the “energy” between you and your partner, you will feel the daily impact of stress in your nervous system. If you can’t “let down” because you don’t feel safe and secure, you will act and behave in ways that may drive your relationship further away.

Before Jayson fully committed to the relationship, Ellen felt naturally felt insecure. This led to a lot of fights that were all about security. We call those “security fights.” Ellen would want reassurance and Jayson was annoyed that he had to give that to her. But Jayson’ couldn’t really give that to her because he wasn’t two feet in.

But once Jayson worked through his fears and blocks to intimacy, and Ellen worked with her blocks and insecurities, Jayson asked Ellen to marry him within a few short weeks.

In this video training, you are going to learn what Ellen and Jayson worked so hard to achieve.

We taught this to a group of amazing students in The Relationship School™.

We demonstrate what it looks like when Ellen or Jayson pulls away and what the other person does. We flip roles and you get a tangible, visceral sense of how Ellen and Jayson navigated the terrain to come together as a strong partnership.

Then you’ll see how they work with their own triggers when one of them pulls away. You’ll also see what it looks like when Jayson is irritable and has his “porcuipine quills” out and the cost of that on Ellen.

Chalked full of real life practical examples and amazing clarifying questions from the students, you’ll be learning why a secure home base is a MUST have in any primary partnership.

You’ll also get a taste of the expensive price tag involved on your body and heart when you don’t commit to learning this stuff.

I hope to see you in there.

Here’s to more couples learning how to have each other’s backs in the most loving and respectful way possible.

Jayson & Ellen

In This 2-Hour Video, Ellen and I Will Show You…

Our story of how we made it through dark times

What an insecure relationship looks like before 2 people fully commit

7 Questions to ask yourself to determine how much you have each other's back

What you can do to hurt the relationship and help it.

The difference between pro-self and pro-relationship

Hallmarks of Insecure relationships

Hallmarks of Secure relationships

The 6 arms (or levels) of attachment in a relationship

About Your Guides

Jayson Gaddis

Jayson Gaddis, relationship student & teacher and host of the Smart Couple Podcast, is on a mission to teach people the one class they didn’t get in school–”How to do intimate relationships.” That’s why he founded The Relationship School™. He was emotionally constipated for years before relationship failure forced him to turn his life over to learning about relationships. Now, he’s married to his amazing wife of 8 years and has two beautiful kids. When he doesn’t live and breathe this stuff with his family, he pretty much gets his ass handed to him.

Ellen Boeder

Ellen Boeder is a psychotherapist, mother, and writer braving the storm of modern womanhood. A strong women’s advocate and feminist, Ellen found herself a bit disoriented when she entered the traditional roles of wife and mother.  Having new found respect for the primacy of partnership and family life, she aspires to help women and couples create a fulfilling flow between partnership, career, personal growth, and all the aspects of our lives.

When you buy this product, you will get:

2.5 hour HD video class

12 audio tracks of the class in case you want to learn as you commute or exercise

A transcript of the entire video class

A PDF worksheet


Are you ready to discover:

The Difference Between An Insecure Relationship & A Secure Relationship

Only $29!

(This class was taught during a live workshop that cost $1000, so this is a screaming deal!)

You can’t lose with this guarantee:

Not Satisfied?  Send us an email within 7 days of purchase, and we’ll refund you 100%. No questions asked.