The Vault
Blog
Years of writing on relationships, conflict, and what it means to be a present man.
Relationship Is A Path- Spoken Word Poem About Partnership
July 20, 2019
Your partner isn’t the problem. They’re the bell ringing you back to yourself.
Two People Got Into A Conflict, Then This Happened…
June 18, 2017
Most people don’t resolve conflict. They just outlast it.
The Most Essential Human Need We All Have
August 4, 2016
Everyone wants the same thing: one person who truly sees them and doesn’t leave.
The Difference Between A Weak Man And A Strong Man
April 24, 2016
The weak man blames his wife for his pain. The strong man gets in the gym.
A Letter To My C*ck
March 14, 2016
Forty years of shame, silence, and running. It ends when you finally stop making your body the enemy.
8 Signs You Are Outgrowing Your Relationships
January 2, 2016
Not every friendship deserves a seat at the table of who you’re becoming.
What To Do When Your Spouse Goes Silent On You
October 23, 2015
Their silence isn’t punishment. Your pursuit isn’t helping.
When Your Friend Cuts You Off
September 25, 2015
Being cut off hurts. But the lesson it’s pointing to is always about you.
The Root Cause of Erectile Dysfunction
September 14, 2015
Your cock isn’t broken. It’s trying to tell you something.