The Vault
Blog
Years of writing on relationships, conflict, and what it means to be a present man.
A Man’s Biggest Fear–that he won’t admit
Behind every man’s bravado is a boy terrified of being seen as not enough.
What To Do When Others Don’t Want You To Change
Growth will cost you. Pay it anyway.
Why Men (And New Dads Like Tiger Woods) Have Affairs
Cheating isn’t the problem. It’s what happens when the real problem goes unspoken.
Idiot Compassion vs True Compassion
Helping to get a thank-you isn’t compassion. It’s a need wearing a generous face.
How To Be A Man: The 5 Pillars of Manhood
No one handed you a map for manhood. Here’s one worth building your life around.
Is She The One? Is He the One?
You’re not looking for the right person. You’re chasing a feeling you don’t yet know how to hold.
How To Get Your Men’s Group Up and Running
A men’s group doesn’t find you. You build it, one honest man at a time.
The Purpose and Value of a Men’s Group
Most men will never be truly seen by another man. A men’s group changes that.
Four Practices to Keeping Your Heart Open, Even When It Hurts
A closed heart feels like protection. It’s actually a prison.