The Vault
Blog
Years of writing on relationships, conflict, and what it means to be a present man.
The Definition of True Love
Infatuation feels like love. True love feels like growth — and sometimes, like a dagger.
The 3 Types Of Marriages
Most marriages don’t fail from lack of love. They fail from the wrong foundation.
How to Deal With An Emotional Wife
She’s not trying to be difficult. She’s showing you where she never felt safe.
How To Reconnect With Your Spouse In 7 Steps
You can’t reconnect with them until you reconnect with you.
When You Want Out Of Your Claustrophobic Marriage
The freedom you’re looking for isn’t on the other side of the relationship. It’s on the other side of your fear of going deeper.
Apology Vs Acknowledgment
“I’m sorry” closes the conversation. Acknowledgement opens the person.
4 Things to Do if Your Marriage is Stuck, Flat, or Drifting
Your marriage isn’t broken. It’s just waiting for both of you to get honest.
How to Really Listen to My Wife in 13 Steps
She doesn’t need you to fix it. She needs you to find her in it.
Taking Responsibility for my Part in a Fight
The fastest way out of a fight is to stop pointing and start owning.