How to Deal With The Distancer-Pursuer Dynamic (Part 1) – SC 71

What is going on with a partner who distances and how do you deal it? In the first of our 2- part series, Ellen and I help the pursuers (connectors) understand and deal with your distancing partner. In part 2, we’ll help the distancer deal with their “needy” or connection-focused partner.
What To Do When Your Spouse Goes Silent On You

When your partner goes silent on you, you have an important job. It’s not your default habit either. The very thing your complaining about is the thing you need to do.