How to Deal With The Distancer-Pursuer Dynamic (Part 2) – SC 72

If you want more space while your partner wants more connection, no need to frustrate anymore. Just relax and know this dynamic is very normal. Here are a few things you can to do today to move toward both parties getting what they want.

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How to Deal With The Distancer-Pursuer Dynamic (Part 1) – SC 71

What is going on with a partner who distances and how do you deal it? In the first of our 2- part series, Ellen and I help the pursuers (connectors) understand and deal with your distancing partner. In part 2, we’ll help the distancer deal with their “needy” or connection-focused partner.

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