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Reflections on 2020

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To the Guarded Hearts Out There..

To the Guarded Hearts Out There..

If you don’t get a handle on some of your core relationship strategies such as the maze you’ve created to allow people into your heart, you’ll continue to drive people away. Some of us don’t want to work that hard to reach you. And, that might be what you need to do...

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Shame

Shame

Shame is a brilliant human emotion. It’s designed to help us feel like shit so we do something about it. Our problem is we add shame on top of the shame pile. But shame in it’s purest, most raw form is exquisite in its teaching. Very precise, very simple, very direct....

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Being Our Authentic Self

Being Our Authentic Self

If our claim is that we are about being totally, authentically who we are, then we need to see all the places, and ways in which, we are afraid to live it. If we examine ourselves closely most of us are not living very authentically. We are living someone else’s dream...

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Householder: Chop Wood Carry Water

Householder: Chop Wood Carry Water

This one just came out of me after a typical “day in the life.” Chop wood carry water Prepare to burn Marry Sex Grow Have a kid Grow more Laugh, cry, rage Poo Clean up poo Sleep Help the kid Don’t sleep Serve the people Don’t see friends Feed the kid...

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For Men Who Hang in There During Conflict

Sometimes men will “hang in there” during a fight to hear their woman out. But “hanging in there” won’t cut it for either party. Hanging in there is what we do when we are beyond our threshold. Hanging in there is what we don’t have tools, can’t truly listen, or would...

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