How Porn Impacts Real Intimacy and Real Relationships [free call]

How is/was your porn use impacting your real relationships?

I’m inspired to help men feel more turned on by their sexual partners. I’m inspired to support men finding even more pleasure out of real sex. In order to do so, we have to really take a look at our sexuality and how we show up sexually online and with real people.

So, as you begin 2013, consider a “no porn diet” with us and hundreds of other men. Join our free, live call on Jan 2, 2013 from 6-7pm MT:

How Porn Impacts Real Intimacy and Real Relationships 

This 1 hr free call will get you honest about how porn is helping or hurting your sex life.
I will co-lead this call with Decker Cunov, Authentic World founder and Integral Center wizard. 

Ask yourself these questions:

  • Are you starting to wonder if using porn is becoming a habit or addiction?
  • Do you consider how it’s impacting you connecting with real women in real time?
  • Do you sense that your porn use is helping or hindering your energy levels for the demands of your life?
  • Do you feel less potent? Or do you ever lose your erection or ejaculate too fast or not at all?
  • Do you find yourself hiding or “covering your tracks” with friends and lovers?
  • Do you use porn when you are stressed, in a fog, glazed over, bored, unambitious, or frustrated?

If any of these are true, chances are porn “has you” versus you having porn.

It’s understandable. Our lives are full and complex, busy and at times overwhelming. Porn, like sugar, booze, or a nap, can lift us up for a bit and take the edge off. It the moment it feels good. Over time…not so much.

We’ve worked with hundreds of men who start out using porn very casually, but over time, it begins to eat away at their lives and contributions to the world.

In our experience, porn seduces men away from their centers, farther from the stuff they claim they care about.

So, we want to challenge you to take a break and see what you learn about yourself. You can put in the time with us and then ask yourself, are you on top of your game more? more focused? Are your relationships with real women more or less satisfying?

Come join the ride with us while we offer some valuable facts and tips on how to get your mojo back to its fullest.

On this basic overview call, we will cover:

  • the cost of your porn use–5-10 ways it’s sucking the much needed potency out of you.
  • how to increase your trustworthiness and personal integrity with porn
  • how to increase your sex drive and passion with women
  • 3 key steps to get out of the porn trance
  • how to begin a no porn diet

Here’s the Registration Link:

http://bit.ly/WXfsxPrncall

So, if you want to learn a few tips and free up more life force for the creative tasks toward your mission while increasing the chemistry and juice between you and women, register for our free call here.

 

6 Comments

  • Steve

    Reply Reply January 2, 2013

    I can’t promise to be on the call tonight, but I wanted to share a message with anyone who might happen to stumble across this page.

    My addiction to porn started innocuously enough. It was a rite of passage as a young guy, gathering with friends to flip through pages of a Nude magazine… and marvel at the spectacle. By the age of 12, I had seen the mags, watched a few tapes, and prank called a few sex hotlines from pay phones. All fairly typical and relatively harmless from my vantage point. I don’t even regret those actions today. Nostalgia for an innocent time in life, I suppose.

    But once my family signed up for Internet in the house, the experience once shared with friends had become an exercise in stealthy web surfing. I got caught a number of times, but I was undeterred. The message for me was to hide my tracks better. Over the course of 15 years—from 12 to 27—the attraction to porn had become more fanatic and frantic. It was the first thought in my brain after classes on most days. And then after work. And then during work. Not too long ago, I realized that I couldn’t stop thinking about porn. My smartphone became a ready, available, and private way to get my fix… and it wouldn’t matter where I was. Work, school, home. My problem was getting worse.

    My fiancée at the time—now wife—expressed her concerns, but attributed this to the fact that I’m a man… and so she let things slide. Now I look back at her viewpoint and feel ashamed that I helped her to define what it means to be a man. I don’t think she realized the true extent of this addiction and what it was doing to our relationship, but she has stuck by my side. By all measures, my wife is a beautiful person. And yet somehow, my expectations for our sexual intimacy was not founded on our relationship, buy rather upon that which I had come to know growing up… Without realizing it, I had effectively ruined my appetite for an intimate sexual experience. Porn had ingrained thousands of fantasies in my head, none of which featured the woman of my emotional desire… my wife. It was a frustrating experience, and left me dissatisfied with the physical aspects of our marriage. I became bitter and resentful, and turned back to porn to satiate that side of me.

    And so the spiral continued.

    Upon the birth of my son last October, I decided that I didn’t want him to be raised by a man who couldn’t control his urges. My son needs a role model. And my wife needs a husband. And I need to be a man for the all our sakes.

    I recognize that i am not the type of person that can have a casual relationship with porn. I have an addictive personality. And so I’ve decided to cut it out of my life entirely.

    It has now been almost 80 says since I’ve looked at any sort of pornography, and my intent is to keep that chain unbroken.

    • Jayson

      Reply Reply January 6, 2013

      congrats steve and thanks for the honest share. I’m certain others will benefit from it.

  • Steve

    Reply Reply January 2, 2013

    … well that was therapeutic.

    I meant to also reiterate how a no porn diet can be absolutely beneficial to a relationship and, ultimately, one’s feeling of self-worth.

    It has been a powerful experience I retrospect.

  • jazel

    Reply Reply January 6, 2013

    Are you guys going to release the recording of this call? I really, really want to listen to it as I feel porn has definitely affected my life negatively in various ways. I sure hope you guys do. Peace

    • Jayson

      Reply Reply January 6, 2013

      yes. it was sent out friday night.

      • Michael

        Reply Reply January 7, 2013

        Hi Jason,

        Thanks for discussing this topic openly, it’s really greatly appreciated.

        Can you please point me in the direction of that recording? I would love to listen to it.

        Thanks and enjoy a wonderful week ahead,
        Michael
        🙂

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