A Simple 4-step Method for Resolving Conflict

Here’s a short video on how to resolve conflict in a long-term partnership

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Boundaries–2 Kinds of Relationship Time-Outs

time outs are boundary practice. essential to know these two with strangers and with lovers.

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The Most Common Relationship Issue Everyone Has

a 1.5 min description of the most common human relationship issue

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How to Really Listen to My Wife in 13 Steps

Do you think you know how to listen? Think again. Listening is an art and it is one of the key ingredients to help you deepen your intimacy with your lover over time

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Six Critical Things to Know About Affairs

Affairs are often a helpful wakeup call in a marriage. The brave couple can not only get through them, but grow closer as a result

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Couples Need a Conscious Community

Marriage in isolation, while socially hiding our struggles, is a recipe for more pain over the long haul

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For Couples Who Want to Learn Conflict

Ever meet that couple that’s been married for years that says proudly, “We never fight!” Um, yeah. That’s often (not always) a yellow flag for me. After I spend time with these folks it turns out that under their “polite” demeanor, they are afraid of the C word. While this couple can claim they have…

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Conflict-Wasting Time Fighting Over Who’s Right

For couples who habitually do conflict by trying to be right. Here’s another way.

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