Trying to Change Your Partner
It’s sure tempting to want your man or woman to change, but by focusing on them, you disempower both parties.
Care-Taking vs Caring For
Are you a care-taker? Rescuer? Is it really serving you or those you care about? Let’s explore what drives this behavior and its cost. Then choose.
Agency
By re-framing selfishness and putting our own needs and desires above anyone else’s, we not only feel better, we serve more people
What To Do If You Are With An Emotional Woman
Many men misinterpret David Deida’s teaching about standing there in the face of your woman’s wrath. Here’s what not to do.
Why Your Teenage Son Needs His Ass Kicked
our culture does little to nothing to assist teen boys in crossing the threshold into manhood. here’s why that must change
Healing the Rift Between Us
So many divides to heal. The divide between men and women, adults and children, Black and White, rich and poor, gay and straight, Israelis and Palestinians, native Americans and my people that stole their land, men and their fathers, women and their mothers, men and their mothers, women and their fathers, siblings, indigenous peoples and…
Relationship as a Spiritual Practice
When we see marriage as a transformative path, it changes the game from “settling,” to a daily practice of noticing where we are opening and closing to love.
Healing The Gender Divide
One way to heal the rift between the genders. Inner work and outer work, together.