Co-Dependency In Marriage

Co-Dependency In Marriage is a tricky one. Contrary to popular belief, codependency isn’t the bad guy. It’s a necessary part of human relationships. But you must know how to work with it…

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A Classic Teenage Relationship Dynamic Where Both Girls and Boys Lose

When boys ask girls for a hug, it sets up a cascade of events where both parties lose and betray themselves

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What To Do If You Are With An Emotional Woman

Many men misinterpret David Deida’s teaching about standing there in the face of your woman’s wrath. Here’s what not to do.

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Conflict Avoidance

Since most of us grew up with no great role models around how to do conflict, it’s understandable why we hold back.

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How Much Intimacy Can You Tolerate?

The way you have your life set up could say a lot about how much intimacy you desire or how scared you are to get it

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The Secret Teaching of Parenting

Parenting takes on a whole new meaning when we have the proper context.

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Healing the Rift Between Us

So many divides to heal. The divide between men and women, adults and children, Black and White, rich and poor, gay and straight, Israelis and Palestinians, native Americans and my people that stole their land, men and their fathers, women and their mothers, men and their mothers, women and their fathers, siblings, indigenous peoples and…

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What I Got From The Inter-Generational Dialogue Between Men

What happened when almost 50 men gathered to explore the divide between the generations

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