Turning 40

Seeing myself more clearly through community

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Complaining Versus Feeling

Feeling is the way through. It’s the way of the body. Complaining is the way of ego. How to let go of one and embrace the other.

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Why Some Men Objectify Women

After 20 years working with boys and men, here’s my own experience and a deeper look about why men objectify women.

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Healing The Gender Divide

One way to heal the rift between the genders. Inner work and outer work, together.

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Transcending the ManBox

Transcending the ManBox is essential if a man wants to become himself and get out from under the BS conditioning he swallowed whole

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Acceptance

Can I really learn to accept myself as I am? You as you are? Life as it is?

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To Everyone I Judge

What I’m learning about my judgments of others

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Shame versus Tough Love

It is a very delicate dance to differentiate between when I am using shame versus tough love. It requires keen presence and awareness.

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